 IS YOUR CAREER A “BARN FIND” or a “RESTOMOD?” I know. This message seems to lean way to the side of the male audience but ladies if you will stick with me for the 5 minute duration of this video you will understand much more about yourself than you can imagine. Many leaders live a life of deep regrets. As we age, we can see back further to all the “would’ve beens,” the “could’ve beens,” and the “shoulda beens” which have pick marked our lives. That road map of failure and missed opportunity often becomes the scrap heap of a career. We long for retirement and hasten our way to sneak off the playing field without much fanfare or even notice. Heaven forbid they see us exit stage right and try to recount our inglorious past!! I present you with a different option. Consider this new perspective. WHAT IF YOU rather than becoming the scrape heap, rust bucket, set out to pasture, you instead applied the “barn find frame off restoration” idea and became a Restomod? If you are intrigued enough - WATCH THE VIDEO and join the discussion. Then share it with another would be rust bucket to give them some hope and encouragement. PHOTO CREDIT: ClassicCars.com LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com #leadingleaderspodcast Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Click Here For SPOTIFY audio only and subscribe WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU DISCOVER A NARCISSIST IN YOUR MIDST? Before to take action or counter measures do a little bit of research. Know the difference between true narcissistic personality disorder and those who employ narcissistic behavior because they have seen it work for others’ success. Many people copy or imitate behavior patterns because they see no harm in the goal achievement and are oblivious to the other harm caused. How they react to the following responses will tell you all you need to know. 1. Boundaries! Set them. Keep them. Be ready to fight for them because you will have to. 2. GET OUT. GET AWAY. If the narcissist will not acknowledge and respect your boundaries you have only one option to protect yourself and your self worth GET OUT! And stay out. They will try to suck you back in and all the mind games will start over. Don’t fall for it. Don’t wait for it to blow over or get better. Just go. 3. Focus on a healthy YOU! Get yourself into a new mental and emotional realm as quickly as you can. This does not mean isolation where you rehash all that was said and done. Nor does this mean commiserating with other victims of the same narcissist. You will not find much help or healing there. Set your sights, your mind and your time on what the ideal YOU would be and don’t stop that pursuit. There is much evidence to suggest limited recovery or change in the heart and actions of someone who has NPD. These three actions will be honored and respected by a normal person with narcissist tendencies as learned or contrived behavior. Know the difference for your own well being. LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com #LEADINGLEADERSPODCAST Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. I HAVE NO AFFILIATION WITH DR. HENRY CLOUD, NO COMMISION, OR PROCEEDS FROM THE SALE OF THIS BOOK. IMAGE RIGHTS: CLICK HERE CLICK FOR LEADING LEADERS PODCAST ON SPOTIFY AUDIO ONLY LEADERS MUST EXPOSE LIARS Lies can destroy an organization. Lies can weaken trust, darken hope, damage relationships and forever damage professional and personal reputations. Lies in an organization, just like in politics need have no bearing or relationship to truth. Simply presenting the lie first will make it seem more believable than a truth told later. A classic narcissistic behavior would make up stories about other team members which have the effect of making others look bad and the narcissist look better. Accusations, declarations and simple slanders will do fine. Once the lies are told, anything which follows seems retribution or retaliation even if the latter set of facts are the only truth. Leaders must be aware of such narcissistic behavior and look for the advance warning signs. Most often a person with these tendencies will come highly recommended from people they have “fooled” in the past. They will be perceived as superstar high achievers and potential top performers. They have sold themselves well - especially in contrast to those they are willing to demean. Remember the decades of wisdom in the words of world renown leadership guru Dr John C Maxwell: “We tens to hire people for what they know, then we FIRE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE!” Leaders be aware and thwart this behavior swiftly with extreme fortitude at the very start! LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com #leadingleaderspodcast Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Photo by Aziz Acharki on Unsplash Follow Leading Leaders Podcast on Spotify for Audio Only What happens when communication is “unplugged?” Communication is a significant tool in the life and work of leadership. According to the “Law of the Lid” your leadership will never rise above the level of your own limitations. If your communication is a 4 out of 10, your leadership will not rise above a 4. So what is the biggest challenge facing communication? CONNECTION!! Let me give you three quick “R’s” to keep top of mind for communicating. J Loren Norris RELEVANCE READINESS RESONANCE And of course all of these require relationship and responsibility! Relevance answers the question: _______________ Readiness addresses the issue of: ______________ Resonance ensures the presence of: ___________ (Yup! You have to watch the video to fill in the blanks) Practice these and keep your communication strong, and your leadership will continue to grow. LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com #leadingleaderspodcast Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Photo by Tim Napier on Unsplash Click Here For Leading Leaders Podcast on Spotify AIN'T GOT TIME FOR THAT!! Seems like we are all too busy. To busy to work more? To busy to play more? To busy to learn more, be more, do more? Ironically, we always seem to find time for the unproductive or counterproductive things in life. We can watch a sporting event for 3-4 hours. We can stare into space (watch television) or play video games for extended periods as well. But when it comes to “bettering ourselves” suddenly time slips away mysteriously and we cannot determine where it went. Baffling really. Here is what I find true in my own failed disciplines. Time cannot be managed. How we use it must be managed. The key words for managing how we allocate time are PRIORITIES AND VALUES. The truth is, we all MAKE time for what really matters to us. As Zig Ziglar noted in “Over The Top” we seem to get more work, chores and errands done the day before vacation than at any other time in our lives.” That is because vacation is a priority and we want to enjoy it to the fullest without the stress of things left undone. We value the time we will spend on vacation with friends and family as we hope to unwind so we pull out all the stops to insure it is not interfered with. If you are a leader, and you have experienced this phenomenon you will notice how powerful it is as a motivator. You will also notice highly successful and influential leaders live as if EVERYDAY is the day before vacation. Sure, we all get rushed and pressed and stressed. We all find interruption upon interruption and then even those get interrupted. We also experience delays, details and decisions which alter the course to success. I challenge you to make it a point of determining your priorities and values so you can wisely manage how you use your time. You will never get it back. LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com #leadingleaderspodcast Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Photo by Alexander Popov on Unsplash Click Here For Leading Leaders Podcast on Spotify Have you ever noticed the most expensive lessons in life were the ones you DID NOT invest in up front? We all love to get a good deal. The BOGO or even BOGO 1/2 Off is worth the trouble to “hunt down” the deal or bargain shop. But everyone is leery of the “something for nothing deal” or the “too good to be true” deal. For the 15+ years I have been in entertainment it has been the same. Everyone wants to budget wisely for their event and most consider the MC an afterthought. After all, everyone has access to Spotify - right? And my cousin went to Toastmasters once, she can make all the announcements. Sure. That will save you some money up front, but what is the cost of a WEDDING DAY DO-OVER? When the playlist bombs and the announcer says something completely unprofessional you cannot undo that. Yes. This is just an example. We do a similar thing in hiring, in personal development, in leadership development for our teams. We buy used tires and get mad when we’re stranded on the side of the freeway - in August - in Texas - in Rush hour because of a blow out. Listen. A worth while investment up front could save you TENS OF THOUSANDS down the road. Take a chance and invest in yourself and in your team while the cost is small. You will find the PRICE is not nearly as high as the value. If you are interested in the DEEPER CONTENT which is not free - visit www.jlorennorris.com/store or sign up on Patreon I will soon be offering exclusive content to patrons which is available NO WHERE ELSE. Watch the video #LeadingLeadersPodcast 8-16-19. LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com/PODCAST Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Click Here For Leading Leaders Podcast on Spotify Audio Leadership is IMPOSSIBLE without authentic, accurate and clear communication. What happens when others work hard to muddy your communication and intent? From politics and media to parents and kids, from teachers and students to friends and family, there are thousands of voices clambering to be heard. Each voice is constantly shouting louder into the fray stirring up confusion over clarity.
Mass media, social media and “peer media” all compete for attention and action. Everyday there is a new “tactic to gain customers or followers” and most of them require a new strategic use of social media platforms. Persuasive skills, communication tools and linguistic manipulation have become the norm in business, politics and education. Leaders must learn and master the power of consistent, accurate communication. Repetition, repetition and more repetition will be necessary to combat the voluminous amounts of misinformation and useless information. Leaders will only win this war with a persistent preponderance of truth. #leadingleaderspodcast Tell It Like It Is TV with J Loren Norris LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Click Here For Audio Only What if equality is a myth?! “Socialism is a great idea. It has never been a great reality.” Thomas Sowell I grew up with the idea “the rich get richer and the poor go broke and it’s the Rich’s fault.” I did not know until recently (studying Thomas Sowell) the idea originated in Marxism. Sowell goes on to talk about the conditions of the poorest of the poor and whether or not the natural occurrences of poverty can be compared with institutional causes of poverty. Fascinating discussion. He also makes a very important point around the notion of equality/ a return to equal standing. In noting the economic strength of former slaves grew at a rate greater than two times faster after slavery was ended and before “governmental policies intervened.” Asking a profound question: was liberty better than welfare? Dr. Jordan Peterson makes a strong point in this area of discussion when he asks “Can you tell me, before we debate the economic and political policies which could shape the world as we know it, is your room cleanly and neatly organized?” He goes in to draw the illustration which many of today’s youth seem to gloss over. You have equal power, rights and authority to clean up after yourself, manage your own belongings be they many or few, and to be ultimately responsible for your corner of the universe. If you fail or refuse to do so, why would the remaining portions of the universe want to follow your lead? Thomas Sowell says clearly, “I was a Marxist because it made sense... until I did my own thorough research.” Leaders need to understand: nature is not balanced, fair and equitable. Nature is harsh and unrelenting. Life is natural and expecting institutions to override nature to create equal outcomes will likely end in disappointment at best - catastrophe at worst. LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com #leadingleaderspodcast Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Photo by Micheile Henderson on Unsplash Click Here For Audio Only Leading Leaders Podcast Don't Be A Bully - Lead With Love! ARE YOU A BULLY? I was recently talking with a client about their work environment. It is amazing how drastically the work place has changed in the last few decades. In similar fashion to the #meetoo movement what was once widely acceptable and expected in the way of conversation is no longer tolerated. You simply cannot talk to people like that any more! In short, if you have not changed your communication style and word choices since your first job out of high school in 1975, you should be updating your resume and your sensitivity training at once. Ironically, geography may be the determining factor in some language and terminology decisions. As an example, in the south (Bible Belt) the use of profanity is considered offense except under extreme conditions. Referring to people or addressing them with profanity might we be fighting words and land you in serious hot water for disrespect or even insubordination. However, you could be fired or worse for using the wrong pronoun if you work in Seattle, San Francisco or similar minded locals. You should know this if your job requires travel. You might be a bully and not even know it. Seriously. Bottom line is this: Bullying is ABOUT HOW OTHERS FEEL when the encounter is done. LOVE is accepting, forgiving and appreciated by ALMOST everyone. Leaders should approach everyone with love, respect and dignity whether you agree with their lifestyle, their logic or their lingo or not. Lead with love. LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com #leadingleaderspodcast Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Photo by Kiana Bosman on Unsplash Click Here For Leading Leaders Podcast Audio Only What if rejection could alter your future from your past? Would you want to crush rejection now? Many leaders, myself included have struggled with rejection in the past. We have felt the sting of betrayal. We have know the emptiness of abandonment. We have lived with the bitter taste of mockery and comparison after a relationship ended wrong. The results of rejection are as multiplied and varied as are the causes. Anger. Hostility. Resentment. These emotions often lurk just beneath the surface for those familiar with rejection. Sadly, one major result of rejection is the attachment to self worth which cause the question: “Am I really any good for anything anyway.” Worse yet is when this question of self worth causes ya to go on the offense and reject others before they can reject us. What a vicious cycle of destruction that can be. If you have been rejected, whether as a leader or before, you need to learn to view yourself differently. You need to adopt a healthy and balanced view of yourself and to focus on the good you bring to others. Finally, practice a more open acceptance of others in order to break the cycle. LEADING LEADERS PODCAST with J Loren Norris providing daily leadership video lessons promoting faith, family and freedom for Tell It Like It Is TV . Blog & Online Courses - www.jlorennorris.com #leadingleaderspodcast Copyright 2019 Tell It Like It Is, Inc. All rights reserved. Leading Leaders Podcast Audio Only |
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