“In a matter of minutes you will have a pretty good grip on his ability to honor others even if he disagrees, his patience with being given directions, his grace and respect for the opposite sex and his empathetic compassion for people in general.“ J Loren Norris
WATCH HOW A YOUNG MAN TREATS HIS MOTHER...
In a matter of minutes you will have a pretty good grip on his ability to honor others even if he disagrees, his patience with being given directions, his grace and respect for the opposite sex and his empathetic compassion for people in general.
Of course, he could be acting just to curry favor. He could be putting on a show just to impress an observer, but of all the people to fool, TRY FOOLING your mom!!
If you see a young man, 5-30 years of age, who is kind, polite, respectful and protective of his mother, chances are he is a man with a great heart. AND IF HE IS FAKING IT just for the moment, MOM will call him on it. It will usually sound like, “Who are you trying to impress?” Or “What do you want now? You’re not normally this nice.”
Those are red flags! If mom calls him out for “pretending to be a good heart person” chances are YOU’RE GETTING PLAYED. Run!
A fellow leadership coach, who is also a mentor to me, told me when he was a C-Suite Executive, he would take potential new hires for a game of golf... even though he doesn’t play well. This time on the course would reveal unintentional weak spots in graciousness, patience, integrity, taking responsibility and many other attributes. It is a place where people tend to let their guard down and feel comfortable.
If you could get a few hours with a young man and his mother, you would learn a DECADES worth of social insights worth millions of dollars in background investigations. If you’re considering dating or marrying him rather than hiring him, this time invested in meeting and getting to know them together could save you years of heartache and thousands of dollars or more or it could reveal the heart of gold you are looking for.
YOUNG MEN - you have been outed. Everyone is now watching how you treat your mother - so WATCH HOW YOU TREAT YOUR MOTHER if you are still privileged to have her in your life.
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Insuperable Vision Workshop - Audio Download
Insuperable Vision Workshop - Audio Download with worksheets
Day after day I meet people who are struggling just to make ends meet. They are adrift in this vast sea of humanity holding on to their job, their family, their home, and their car with all they've got. They see their life experiences and education as the last hope to find their purpose and identity. They gather, fill and stuff all the money they can into every opportune investment. Yet they are empty, frustrated, angry and just plain fed up.
We have all experienced that moment; when we find yourself stuck in traffic, yelling at random strangers to do what they wish they could... but can't... GO!
The idea that life can be better than it is today is like the flame of a candle fighting for all its worth to stand against the tempest.
We all want a better life.
Even when life is good, we want more.
That idea, that flame, is the hope that lives in the hearts and minds of all of us. Should that flame be extinguished, hope itself may well go with it. It is the rut of hopelessness that traps many would be shining stars and buries that glow from the sight of the world. It is the rut of hopelessness that extinguishes that flame.
Lives that would have been a beacon to the wandering are lost at sea themselves. Inspirations of success that would have been the voices crying out to all who suffer are hidden away in their own stale lives, they cannot share who they are or what the world needs from them.
It is my passion to help you find your purpose. I want to see you become successful, but more than that to be free!
Without vision people perish.
Without vision, we seem to be lost, mind numb robots following the herd into the abyss that is everyday life. We do not live intentionally without a vision for our future. We do not live passionately without a vision for our future. We do not live productively without a vision for our future. We certainly cannot lead without a vision for our future and a vision for the future of those we lead.
This audio course will inspire and instruct you to create a vision which will become a significant driving force in your life.