"I realize this seems a bit negative. But it really depends on the magnitude of YOUR forward thinking influence. It has been my experience that human relationships are like an invisible game of emotional Tetris. We tend to fit into each others lives at any given moment based on the GAPS in our own lives OR THE GAPS IN THEIRS." J Loren Norris
WHO DO YOU ATTRACT INTO YOUR LIFE?
What about you draws them?
Many people complain about “their friends” without realizing its their friends they are complaining about.
Let me explain. If you have ever felt the strain in a relationship because of a new idea, opportunity or risky decision which popped into your head but couldn’t get anyone you know to agree it’s a great idea - you problem may not be your idea, but your friends.
It’s the old crabs in a barrel notion. Some folks just cannot sit idly by and watch others succeed. Not that they are jealous enough to take action and grab that success for themselves, they just live their life in a bucket of misery and well “misery loves company!!”
I realize this seems a bit negative. But it really depends on the magnitude of YOUR forward thinking influence. It has been my experience that human relationships are like an invisible game of emotional Tetris. We tend to fit into each others lives at any given moment based on the GAPS in our own lives OR THE GAPS IN THEIRS.
If you find a particular group of people always tend to migrate toward you, ask yourself: “What do I have to offer them which would be hard or impossible for them to find elsewhere?”
Also ask yourself: “What do I need to do to turn the bucket over so all these strange crabs can experience freedom and a fast of success for themselves?”
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Insuperable Vision Workshop - Audio Download
Insuperable Vision Workshop - Audio Download with worksheets
Day after day I meet people who are struggling just to make ends meet. They are adrift in this vast sea of humanity holding on to their job, their family, their home, and their car with all they've got. They see their life experiences and education as the last hope to find their purpose and identity. They gather, fill and stuff all the money they can into every opportune investment. Yet they are empty, frustrated, angry and just plain fed up.
We have all experienced that moment; when we find yourself stuck in traffic, yelling at random strangers to do what they wish they could... but can't... GO!
The idea that life can be better than it is today is like the flame of a candle fighting for all its worth to stand against the tempest.
We all want a better life.
Even when life is good, we want more.
That idea, that flame, is the hope that lives in the hearts and minds of all of us. Should that flame be extinguished, hope itself may well go with it. It is the rut of hopelessness that traps many would be shining stars and buries that glow from the sight of the world. It is the rut of hopelessness that extinguishes that flame.
Lives that would have been a beacon to the wandering are lost at sea themselves. Inspirations of success that would have been the voices crying out to all who suffer are hidden away in their own stale lives, they cannot share who they are or what the world needs from them.
It is my passion to help you find your purpose. I want to see you become successful, but more than that to be free!
Without vision people perish.
Without vision, we seem to be lost, mind numb robots following the herd into the abyss that is everyday life. We do not live intentionally without a vision for our future. We do not live passionately without a vision for our future. We do not live productively without a vision for our future. We certainly cannot lead without a vision for our future and a vision for the future of those we lead.
This audio course will inspire and instruct you to create a vision which will become a significant driving force in your life.